Submitted by Name: Internet Subject: Honest Feedback
Comments: Reason for cancelling: I greatly respect the idea of a childfree dating site. I've started a relationship thats going well so I'm going to cancel my membership. I will most probably post a profile again if it doesn't work out.
Since you asked for honesty, here goes..... I like the website, but the animated baby image that yells the welcome message grates on my every nerve. I can't stand it. And its so annoying and embarrassing that I wont log on at work, coffee shop, or anywhere in public. And some of the crossed out images and sperm icons seem unprofessional. There is an air of negativity and hostility against babies that might come off as immature.
I think your website can cater to a very versatile section of society, but the abrasively negative portrayal of babies probably deters many people. Mature professionals, those who love babies but just don't want one, those who are still deciding wether or not they want to be child free, and especially some beautiful women who are just unable to conceive, may be turned off by the obnoxious anti baby voice and images.
I think if you loose the negativity part, and promote the positive aspects of choosing a childfree life, the website will appear more professional and appeal to more people.
Thanks for asking for my opinion.
Added: February 15, 2010
Submitted by Name: dame lane Subject: I didn't appreciate the tone
Comments: I read over your profile. I didn't appreciate the tone of your profile page.
Added: February 5, 2010
Submitted by Name: CM Subject: IdoNOTwantKids
Comments: Reason for cancelling: There is nothing wrong with this website at all - it is really, really good, but unfortunately I am now in a relationship and it is not fair on my other half to keep my profile on here. Please keep up the good work though - like I said, this is a very good website for people like me who don't want kids!
Added: February 1, 2010
Submitted by Name: The same poster Subject: Amendment
Comments: Pardon, I missed the irony of a childfree person parodying a "Madd Mommy Against Childfree".
She's right, most people over 40 do have children. And the thinkers are the standouts by not breeding, and not all, but too many, breeders simply have functioning genitalia, not functioning minds.
Added: January 29, 2010
Submitted by Name: Doesn't Need Breeders' Hatred Subject: Breeders' Hatred
Comments: I had to check out the hate mail, since I have witnessed elsewhere enough vicious spewing to convince me that parents are full of hate. Not to mention self-righteous - or is it misery wants company?
Wouldn't want to reveal my member name to such a bunch of vicious, hateful, spiteful attackers as parents have shown themselves to be.
Witness the "Madd Mommy" who says that "most people over 40 have children *pout*"
Well, duh.
Most people use their genitalia just because they have them; it takes thinking and reasoning and intelligence to decide NOT to breed. When I read the train-wrecks who write to advice columns, I think, "And this is who's breeding."
So, someone finally started on online group.
I also recommend Meetup childfree groups, and NoKidding.
Added: January 29, 2010
Submitted by Name: SHEILA SCWAB Subject: New Jersey
Comments: Good try promoting your idiot web site and after reading your fake garbage I could tell your 100% jew.
If anything was real its a great service to the world that you are not contributing to the gene pool
Added: January 28, 2010
Submitted by Name: RealWoman Subject: Interesting site but...
Comments: The site is funny but too vulgar to take seriously. I am curious as to whom the target audience is: M? F? Bi? Gay? 20? 30? 40+?...
I had plenty of time to have children before, after and during marriage. (No, thank-you, I'm still good!)
That doesn't mean I want to "hook-up" with anyone either. I'm a professional, educated and want a steady mate who has the same attributes and goals.
I read a few e-mails here and I'm shocked: "all those men have kids/ all those women have kids". MOST people over 40 have children, ALOT of people over 30 have children, SOME people over 20 have children.(Poor kids, dumb parents.) The older you become, the more likely your date will have children.
So what? My point is that if I wanted to be a "mommy" I would have done it by now. I am not going to be your kids' new "mommy" now. By the way, you and I are old enough to someone's grandparents now, and your kids are old enough to leave and have families of their own.
Added: January 26, 2010
Submitted by Name: RKGS
Comments: I JUST WANT TO SAY THANK YOU FOR CREATING THIS SITE. IT IS NEXT TO IMPOSSIBLE TO FIND WOMEN AT OTHER DATING SITES WHO ARE CHILDLESS.
Added: January 20, 2010
Submitted by Name: Bible-belt Subject: L.
Comments: Christopher M. Puzzele...
Man... I should be THANKING YOU for creating this site!! I've NEVER seen such a site where HONESTY is not only DEMANDED but, it's also ENCOURAGING to be so while writing your profile! I've always been a 'cut-to-the-bone' kinda guy anyway but, always felt that living in the midwest always kinda hampered me to indulge in SOME bullshit just to fit in this shitty Bible-belt! I don't belong here whatsoever but, while I'm here..I wanna be able to be TOTALLY STRAIGHT FORWARD within my ad AND still be attractive TO the ones I'm attracted TO as well... w/o the BULLSHIT!! I dig the fact you're an attorney as I know you appreciate NO BULLSHIT more than anyone! In your field, it's ALL you ever hear! I get that! Lol! Anyway... I don';t know of any dames in Jersey and you probaly don't wanna hit the Jersey Shore after the episodes we've seen on TV (haha) but, if you know of anyone in Indianapolis for ME... let me know bro! I can't stand these chicks here due to the games and fronts 99% of them put on here! Hey... if you feel like shootin' the proverbial shit and/or just for swappin some brainstorm idea on how we can both find our ideal mates, feel free to buzz me sometime! You seem like a cool guy to know!
Added: January 13, 2010
Submitted by Name: LLL Subject: THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR POSTING E-mail: lorenavchansy@live.com
Comments: so happy to see this!!im a women! I do not want kids!!yet I'v never met another women like myself!!that sucks!!cause I have no friends to go out with without them bringing a big headache!!
Name: Internet
Subject: Honest Feedback
Reason for cancelling: I greatly respect the idea of a childfree dating site. I've started a relationship thats going well so I'm going to cancel my membership. I will most probably post a profile again if it doesn't work out.
Since you asked for honesty, here goes..... I like the website, but the animated baby image that yells the welcome message grates on my every nerve. I can't stand it. And its so annoying and embarrassing that I wont log on at work, coffee shop, or anywhere in public. And some of the crossed out images and sperm icons seem unprofessional. There is an air of negativity and hostility against babies that might come off as immature.
I think your website can cater to a very versatile section of society, but the abrasively negative portrayal of babies probably deters many people. Mature professionals, those who love babies but just don't want one, those who are still deciding wether or not they want to be child free, and especially some beautiful women who are just unable to conceive, may be turned off by the obnoxious anti baby voice and images.
I think if you loose the negativity part, and promote the positive aspects of choosing a childfree life, the website will appear more professional and appeal to more people.
Thanks for asking for my opinion.