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Name: Single, Childfree, Hot
Subject: Crap Detector Now Sensing....
Name: Single, Childfree, Hot
Subject: Crap Detector Now Sensing....
Comments:
@Marina "I'm not sure women that don't want kids even exist my dear."
Wrong AGAIN! We do. Very fact-free, delusional statement there.
@Marina: "You don't want kids. This is the kicker" It's an *excellent* kicker!
@Marina: "good luck finding this unicorn you are looking for"
Can't make sense of this because it is impossible to make sense out of nonsense. No unicorns mentioned on this site that I know of; it's a site for child-free people to meet up.
@single and happy: "I have also met guys how said that they would date me if I could get rid of my kid. That is just wrong and cold."
I am uninterested in dating a man if he has ungrown spawn of any age - be it diaper-loaders, rug-rats or curtain-climbers. So - no, it's not wrong and cold.
@single and happy: "Stop bitching because a someone wants kids be it a man or a woman." No, I think I won't stop doing that. (On the occasions I feel like doing so.)
@single and happy: "If people were nicer and not so judgemental or greedy then there wouldn't be these idiotic problem." If there weren't such an emphasis on breeding (which i find selfish and stupid) and on the glorification of mommyhood, there would be even fewer problems!
And fewer "little problems", and fewer little carbon footprints to feed.
@Marina "I'm not sure women that don't want kids even exist my dear."
Wrong AGAIN! We do. Very fact-free, delusional statement there.
@Marina: "You don't want kids. This is the kicker" It's an *excellent* kicker!
@Marina: "good luck finding this unicorn you are looking for"
Can't make sense of this because it is impossible to make sense out of nonsense. No unicorns mentioned on this site that I know of; it's a site for child-free people to meet up.
@single and happy: "I have also met guys how said that they would date me if I could get rid of my kid. That is just wrong and cold."
I am uninterested in dating a man if he has ungrown spawn of any age - be it diaper-loaders, rug-rats or curtain-climbers. So - no, it's not wrong and cold.
@single and happy: "Stop bitching because a someone wants kids be it a man or a woman." No, I think I won't stop doing that. (On the occasions I feel like doing so.)
@single and happy: "If people were nicer and not so judgemental or greedy then there wouldn't be these idiotic problem." If there weren't such an emphasis on breeding (which i find selfish and stupid) and on the glorification of mommyhood, there would be even fewer problems!
And fewer "little problems", and fewer little carbon footprints to feed.
Added: April 1, 2010
Submitted by
Name: Domino
Subject: @Marina
Name: Domino
Subject: @Marina
Comments:
You actually dare to negate my existence in one blanket statement?
You actually dare to negate my existence in one blanket statement?
Added: March 28, 2010
Submitted by
Name: female
Subject: Christopher M. Puzzele, Esq.
Name: female
Subject: Christopher M. Puzzele, Esq.
Comments:
Christopher...
They site sent me a Quiver and I read through your profile. At times my mouth opened and I chuckled. You will find someone (if you haven't found her yet). That was a real honest profile and that's something you don't see very often. I really enjoyed reading it.
Christopher...
They site sent me a Quiver and I read through your profile. At times my mouth opened and I chuckled. You will find someone (if you haven't found her yet). That was a real honest profile and that's something you don't see very often. I really enjoyed reading it.
Added: March 24, 2010
Submitted by
Name: tasperson
Subject: women telling men about themse
E-mail: library_jess@yahoo.com.au
Name: tasperson
Subject: women telling men about themse
E-mail: library_jess@yahoo.com.au
Comments:
Hi,
I do sympathise with most of your views - honestly, I'm 100% child-free myself (surgically guaranteed!) and think finances should be fair and equal and balanced, but when you wrote (at shedumpedme.net) "I am dumbfounded to find via my female friends confiding in me that women rarely tell their boyfriends what they are ‘really’ like behind closed doors. Instead, they very gradually reveal a little bit at a time over many months/years." - if you want to talk about uncommunicativeness, try having a relationship with a man! Honestly, men are famous for not communicating and for lacking emotional self-awareness. When do men tell women what they are "really" like? In general, women have to do the huge majority of the work in terms of clear communication in the relationship.
But, like I said, I'm still 99% on your side, so good on you, mate!
Hi,
I do sympathise with most of your views - honestly, I'm 100% child-free myself (surgically guaranteed!) and think finances should be fair and equal and balanced, but when you wrote (at shedumpedme.net) "I am dumbfounded to find via my female friends confiding in me that women rarely tell their boyfriends what they are ‘really’ like behind closed doors. Instead, they very gradually reveal a little bit at a time over many months/years." - if you want to talk about uncommunicativeness, try having a relationship with a man! Honestly, men are famous for not communicating and for lacking emotional self-awareness. When do men tell women what they are "really" like? In general, women have to do the huge majority of the work in terms of clear communication in the relationship.
But, like I said, I'm still 99% on your side, so good on you, mate!
Added: March 20, 2010
Comments:
Having children isn't a chore or a curse. But I do want to know why is that a lot of men think that if a woman is a single mom that she will automaically give into her baser instincts when alone with any guy? I have one child. Whether I want more is still up in the air. I have also met guys how said that they would date me if I could get rid of my kid. That is just wrong and cold. Yes a lot of people want kids but that isn't a crime. Stop bitching because a someone wants kids be it a man or a woman. Everyone is an indiviual and unique in their own right. By the way no one should have to pay 100% of the time. Coupons aren't bad or evil. If a guy asks a woman out then he should pay. If a woman asks a guy out then she should pay. That is my belief. If it a mutual decision to go out then they should split the tab. Sorry if I have offended anyone but I don't want a man supporting me. I can do that just fine thank you. If people were nicer and not so judgemental or greedy then there wouldn't be these idiotic problem.
Having children isn't a chore or a curse. But I do want to know why is that a lot of men think that if a woman is a single mom that she will automaically give into her baser instincts when alone with any guy? I have one child. Whether I want more is still up in the air. I have also met guys how said that they would date me if I could get rid of my kid. That is just wrong and cold. Yes a lot of people want kids but that isn't a crime. Stop bitching because a someone wants kids be it a man or a woman. Everyone is an indiviual and unique in their own right. By the way no one should have to pay 100% of the time. Coupons aren't bad or evil. If a guy asks a woman out then he should pay. If a woman asks a guy out then she should pay. That is my belief. If it a mutual decision to go out then they should split the tab. Sorry if I have offended anyone but I don't want a man supporting me. I can do that just fine thank you. If people were nicer and not so judgemental or greedy then there wouldn't be these idiotic problem.
Added: March 17, 2010
Submitted by
Name: Satisfied member
Name: Satisfied member
Comments:
Well, I'm a 55-year-old female member, childfree by choice. I see a few members over 1000 miles away. Of course, even a mere 100 miles away is pretty far to go to have a coffee.
We are forming a childfree Meetup in Bellingham Washington.
Well, I'm a 55-year-old female member, childfree by choice. I see a few members over 1000 miles away. Of course, even a mere 100 miles away is pretty far to go to have a coffee.
We are forming a childfree Meetup in Bellingham Washington.
Added: March 16, 2010
Submitted by
Name: Marina
Subject: your animation thing
Name: Marina
Subject: your animation thing
Comments:
I had to tell you, your animation thing is hilarious: Do NOT date me if...
Your problem in finding this "perfect woman" is that you are going against biology. Humans are animals, plain and simple. Why do women want men to pay for them? Because it shows that the man is able to take care of them. In caveman days, this was shown through physical acts like fighting off another man, slaying a dragon, whatever. Now it's paying for dinner. I agree with you, it SHOULD be equal. But it ain't going to happen. Why? Because it's biologically unattractive.
Why do women want a tall man... same reason. Protection. Tall and strong. But there are plenty of women under 5'5 so that really isn't your problem.
You don't want kids. This is the kicker. I'm not sure women that don't want kids even exist my dear. You better get a vasectomy, lie to them, get them to love you and then question why it is that she can't get pregnant.
Anyways, your hilarious... good luck finding this unicorn you are looking for
I had to tell you, your animation thing is hilarious: Do NOT date me if...
Your problem in finding this "perfect woman" is that you are going against biology. Humans are animals, plain and simple. Why do women want men to pay for them? Because it shows that the man is able to take care of them. In caveman days, this was shown through physical acts like fighting off another man, slaying a dragon, whatever. Now it's paying for dinner. I agree with you, it SHOULD be equal. But it ain't going to happen. Why? Because it's biologically unattractive.
Why do women want a tall man... same reason. Protection. Tall and strong. But there are plenty of women under 5'5 so that really isn't your problem.
You don't want kids. This is the kicker. I'm not sure women that don't want kids even exist my dear. You better get a vasectomy, lie to them, get them to love you and then question why it is that she can't get pregnant.
Anyways, your hilarious... good luck finding this unicorn you are looking for
Added: March 12, 2010
Submitted by
Name: Kris
Subject: just found this site!
Name: Kris
Subject: just found this site!
Comments:
Someone should have done this long ago - as in "long ago when I was really cute and DIDN'T WANT KIDS EVEN THEN!" Now I'm 57, still kinda cute but "rots of ruck" at this age finding someone who never had kids and isn't obsessed now with their grandchildren (gag me). I guess stranger things have happened...maybe I will get a picture and do a profile.
Someone should have done this long ago - as in "long ago when I was really cute and DIDN'T WANT KIDS EVEN THEN!" Now I'm 57, still kinda cute but "rots of ruck" at this age finding someone who never had kids and isn't obsessed now with their grandchildren (gag me). I guess stranger things have happened...maybe I will get a picture and do a profile.
Added: March 10, 2010
Submitted by
Name: member
Subject: IdoNotWantKids
Name: member
Subject: IdoNotWantKids
Comments:
Thank you so much for creating this IdoNotWantKids website. I certainly hope that you find that special someone. Thanks for helping me attempt to find mine!
Thank you so much for creating this IdoNotWantKids website. I certainly hope that you find that special someone. Thanks for helping me attempt to find mine!
Added: March 7, 2010
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Name: Former User
Subject: Reason for cancelling
Reason for cancelling: I CAN'T STAND YOUR STUPID ROTATING FACE ON THE SITE.. JUST WANNA SMACK YOU.