I know that it's a long shot joining this site - I'm Kenyan, living in Nairobi, and many men (and women!) in my country are do not see their futures without children. Makes me sad that people don't think that living child-free is an option.
Anyway, whoever I meet here, Kenyan or not, I hope to make a genuine connection!
Comments: What if you don't have enough members in my area? Is there anyway of knowing how many members are in my area so I can see if it worth my time or not?
IdoNOTwantKids reply: If you are looking for a site with a gazillion members (many of which are fake or from people that want/have kids), this is not it. Instead, this site is about quality, not quantity. Bullshit profiles or those wanting kids are constantly deleted. I humbly suggest you create a profile and simply leave it online as the membership grows. Ironically, many people create profiles but remove them the same day when they do not immediately see a match. That is silly. Just keep your profile online as the membership grows. You never know who might see it!
Added: November 21, 2013
Submitted by Name: Ihadkidsfordinner Subject: Thank you
Comments: This site is AWESOME!!! I will do all I can to promote it, despite the hate mail I will get from all my parent friends.
Added: November 7, 2013
Submitted by Name: Michael Subject: Thank You
Comments: I want to tell you that I just joined your site yesterday and want to say that I have never seen so many HOT & BEAUTIFUL women that DON'T WANT KIDS in my life! All of the gorgeous girls on other dating sites I've been a member at ALL WANT CHILDREN. One word can describe your site...WOW!!...you have given me new hope!! Thank you so very much! Also...the fact that your great site is TOTALLY FREE just blows my mind!! To offer this free dating service to the public tells me that you are an outstanding individual with a huge heart and wonderful soul!
The best of luck in life to you and in everything you do...and I will definitely let you know if I come across any 'no kids women' in the New Jersey area.
Once again, thanks so much for your hard work creating "Dating For KIDFREE Singles!"
Sincerely,
Added: November 5, 2013
Submitted by Name: dmk Subject: Met someone great
Comments: Reason for cancelling: Met someone great through this website that doesn't want kids. Thanks!
Added: October 16, 2013
Submitted by Name: FitChilledGuy Subject: Reason for cancelling
Comments: Hi good news... met a girl on here.
Thanks x
Added: September 9, 2013
Submitted by Name: Niagara Subject: I love coupons too! ;) lol
Comments: I just found your site today (when looking at the childfree pages) and I think it's pretty dang funny! Just wanted to say I also love to use coupons (I have an Entertainment book too and I price match and coupon everything else I can!) I also used to be a Legal Asst. so I think it's neat you are a lawyer.
Anyways, I am undecided about joining the site though. But I think you are so funny and very interesting even if we don't agree on all the points on your list (which I had a hoot reading!)
Niagara
Added: August 22, 2013
Submitted by Name: Former User Subject: Reason for cancelling
Comments: Reason for cancelling: I don\'t like all the questions about money! Can't you let people meet each other first and figure that out for themselves IF they get that far? Why do we have to put it out there who should pay for a vacation before we've even gone to the movies together for the first time? It's just shallow and out of order. Plus the website just looks cheesy; you need to redesign it. Good luck to all.
IdoNOTwantKids reply: As an attorney and somebody that has communicated with thousands of people around the globe about relationships, I believe the 3 biggest causes of divorce are: kids, money and sex. Hence, that is why these issues are specifically addressed.
Plus, some women believe the guy should ALWAYS pay. Some guys, however, believe they should not ALWAYS pay. Therefore, why not address the very serious issue of money before wasting your time? It is very similar to the infamous kid issue. I'd want to know if a female wants kids BEFORE I bother meeting them for a date... the same logic holds true for the money issue. If you aren't compatible with one of the biggest causes of divorce (i.e. sex , money, kids), I'd like to know that in advance.
Added: June 18, 2013
Submitted by Name: Ari Subject: www.IdoNOTwantKids.com
Comments: Hi im want to tell you that your page is great! Is the best page that i have seen about dates, very oiginal and serious (at least seems). Sadly i live in South America and that isnt a good think to find a partner, most people think that we are all hungry people looking for a better life but not always is true. You are a genious!
Added: June 17, 2013
Submitted by Name: Former User Subject: IdoNOTwantKids.com
Comments: Reason for cancelling: I met someone on this site! We started messaging in Feb. 2012 and I met him in March. We started dating soon after that. I'm focusing on spending time with this person so I am removing my profile at this time. Thank you so much for setting up this site! I joined with the thinking that I would not meet someone wonderful with whom I have a connection who didn't want children like me. My hope is that we continue to progress. And if this leads to something lasting, I will contact you and let you know so it may give others hope. Thanks again and bless you. I hope you have a wonderful new year.
Name: Kenyan
Thank you for your website!
I know that it's a long shot joining this site - I'm Kenyan, living in Nairobi, and many men (and women!) in my country are do not see their futures without children. Makes me sad that people don't think that living child-free is an option.
Anyway, whoever I meet here, Kenyan or not, I hope to make a genuine connection!
Thanks again!