Comments: Reason for cancelling: There is something very negative about this website. The incessant questions about money are odd, and I've noticed how nearly all the men on here say they don't want kids, but NONE of them appear to have taken responsibility for themselves and gotten a vasectomy already. I guess they just expect women to have abortions or be abandoned, as if it's all her fault, left holding the man\'s kid in the event of an "accidental" pregnancy. The hypocrisy is overwhelming. The energy I get from this site is "women, be prepared to be held responsible for absolutely everything in our relationships, because we men sure as hell won't be. You can pay for everything, AND you can deal with any babies that might spring forth from our bodies, even if we are equally involved the process of creating them". Not really the kinds of men I want to know.
Added: March 15, 2013
Submitted by Name: Sally Subject: Posting pictures
Comments: I like the site but can't seem to post a picture from my iPhone. This is frustrating (I'm hot, dammit, & I want that to show on my profile). Is there any way around this or do I really have to hunt down a computer with internet in this day & age?
Added: January 9, 2013
Submitted by Name: Eldon Subject: www.IdoNOTwantKids.com
Comments: Mr Puzzele idonotwantkids.com is a very well-constructed website and provides a very valuable service. I thank you, and want to say that I hope you will continue to maintain the website even if you don't make any money doing it. THANKS Eldon
Added: November 26, 2012
Submitted by Name: Thinkerbell Subject: Haters Gonna Hate. And Breed!
Comments: @ Michelle: You sound like a real tool. Your making parents your heroes is not really the issue. It's the self-righteous, pompous, pouty, huffy, apoplectic, juvenile, name-calling way you present it. It is possible to be honest and like offspring without being a tactless, name-calling juvenile jerk, you know.
Did you ever stop to think that perhaps you love spawn so much, and don't say whether you are single, but you probably are - and probably divorced or will--be-divorced because you're a jerk and not just because you're a self-righteous, juvenile name-caller?
"My job involves kids" - um, did you stop reacting with your glands long enough to think that many jobs involve people of all ages? Duh. Someone give this Michelle an award... for emotional, infantile, name-calling, bitchy-broad talk to cover up how threatened she is by child-free people living full lives.
On the other hand, Michelle, I am sincerely glad if you haven't reproduced yet. Please don't. I hope it's not too late. The world needs people who have developed their prefrontal cortex enough to think and reason, and not just react emotionally. We don't need more infantile people breeding more infants.
Also, it's "child-free people* are my heroes.
Added: November 5, 2012
Submitted by Name: Michele
Comments: You sound like a real tool. Your philosophy is not really the issue. It's the pompous way you present it. It is possible to be honest and direct without being tactless jerk, you know. Did you ever stop to think that perhaps you're single because you're a jerk and not just because you're a half-pint, baby-hating, cheapskate?
"My job involves kids" ....um how so, by divorcing their parents? Someone give this guy an award.... For slick lawyer talk..
On the other hand, I am glad to hear that you don't plan on reproducing. Keeping your genes out of the pool is fine by me.
Also, it's "parents* are my heroes."
Added: September 1, 2012
Submitted by Name: Melissa Subject: www.IdoNOTwantKids.com
Comments: Hello Christopher,
First of all, Congratulations on making one of the most honest and hilarious dating websites I have ever seen. I loved it.
My sister and I were talking tonight, and she just read this book about being childfree. (She's a therapist and married. I am single and divorced. We both don't have kids)
Anyway, she told me about this site, because I have come to an age where I finally realize that I do not want to date anyone who has children. I do think kids are wonderful, it just has not worked out in my life, and now I am at an age where I just do not want them.
So, I went to your website tonight, and was delighted with what I saw. I started cracking up at your humor. I wish you lived in Southern California where I am (Orange County) because I would be setting up a coffee date with you immediately. I find your humor to be enchanting, and you are 100% spot on, regarding that LAME website eHarmony. Their so-called matching system is totally bogus. It is nothing but a marketing gimmick. The fact that you were banned from the site makes me think you are actually probably quite a gem, who is very honest.
All the best,
Added: March 27, 2012
Submitted by Name: Amour Subject: Shame
Comments: Its a shame that's out of all the guys in the world who don't want to have kids,there is only one in my state yet in Europe they are a LOT more to chose from.Why is it so hard to find a guy who doesn't wanted kids in NY so tough to get? Maybe I need to be move to Europe XD.
Added: February 21, 2012
Submitted by Name: Lori Subject: Married because of IdoNOTwantKids.com
Comments: I wanted to write to you with my sincerest gratitude for this site. It was through here three years ago that I met the love of my life. Someone who shares the same outlook on life that I do, someone who has the same goals, and someone who brought me a sense of home and fulfillment. Most of all, someone who doesn't want to give up their lives or their partner for the sake of children, just like me. We were married yesterday. So, thank you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for putting up this site and helping us find each other. You've made a huge difference in both our lives.
Added: November 1, 2011
Submitted by Name: Shay Subject: Thoughts on IdoNOTwantKids.com
Comments: Compliment of the day regarding www.IdoNOTwantKids.com: You are awesome! Finally someone who will help all of us "minority" people. Thank you so much!
Added: October 23, 2011
Submitted by Name: nick
Comments: this site reminds me of the old AOL days. maybe you should start charging people so you can spruce up the site.
Name: Former User
Subject: Cancel
Reason for cancelling: There is something very negative about this website. The incessant questions about money are odd, and I've noticed how nearly all the men on here say they don't want kids, but NONE of them appear to have taken responsibility for themselves and gotten a vasectomy already. I guess they just expect women to have abortions or be abandoned, as if it's all her fault, left holding the man\'s kid in the event of an "accidental" pregnancy. The hypocrisy is overwhelming. The energy I get from this site is "women, be prepared to be held responsible for absolutely everything in our relationships, because we men sure as hell won't be. You can pay for everything, AND you can deal with any babies that might spring forth from our bodies, even if we are equally involved the process of creating them". Not really the kinds of men I want to know.